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    • November 06, 2025
    • 12:00 PM - 1:30 PM
    • Zoom

    The Maine Agricultural Mediation Program (MAMP) within the UMaine Cooperative Extension warmly extends an invitation to MAM Members.  Please join us for our no-cost webinar, "Mentalism in Mediation".

    When & Where: Thursday, November 6, 2025, via live Zoom

    Noon to 1:30 PM (Eastern)

    Presenters & Overview: Professor Sharon Sawyer (one of our MAMP Co-Mediators) from the Justice Studies Program at the University of Maine at Augusta (UMA) & Dr. Magda Nišphonska (sounds like: Nish-pon'-ska) from the College of Psychology at the Technical University of Liberec, Czech Republic. Sharon & Magda will bring their specialties together in this collaborative session -- Mediation and Mentalism in the field of Psychology. Mentalism emphasizes the role of unobservable mental states, such as attitudes, beliefs, and feelings, as the drivers of behavior. This webinar will explore connections and share tools that Mediators can use to better understand and improve their work with participants using the tenets of Mentalism.

    Please register via Google Forms HERE!

    Please note:

    • This session is for and tailored to Agricultural Mediators as well as Mediation Programs, Providers & Students.
    • Webinar information, including a Zoom link, will be sent via Google Calendar/ e-mail.
    • Questions: please reach out to Lucy, lucille.wess@maine.edu, or Shiela, maineagmediation@maine.edu  

    Lucy Wess, Esq. 

    Director, Maine Agricultural Mediation Program

    Certified Farm Succession Coordinator 

    UMaine Cooperative Extension

    Weekdays: 8:30 AM to 4:00 PM, otherwise by appointment


    207.974.9637

    15 Estabrooke Drive

    Orono, ME 04469

    • November 07, 2025
    • 8:00 AM - 2:45 PM
    • Zoom
    Register



    MAM Annual Conference and Meeting

    Healing to Wellness in Conflict Resolution:

    Tribal Court Wisdom and Self-Care Tools for Mediators

    Friday, November 7, 2025


    9:00 am - 2:45 pm


     via Zoom


    3.5 Hours of CLE Approved

    Includes 1 hour of Ethics 

    Join us for a day that blends tribal wisdom with professional renewal. In the morning, we’ll learn from the Penobscot Nation’s Healing to Wellness Court - a restorative, community-based approach to justice - presented by Hon. Eric Mehnert and Hon. Rhonda Decontie. In the afternoon, we’ll focus on our own well-being with Gretchen Pianka, MD., exploring simple, powerful practices to reduce burnout, mitigate stress in real time, and model radical self-care for ourselves and others as we work with parties in conflict.

    Don't miss this opportunity for professional development and connecting with colleagues in the field of alternative dispute resolution. 

    Click Here for Agenda

    Morning Session

    Penobscot Nation’s Healing to Wellness Court 

    The Penobscot Nation utilizes Native American customs and traditions to explore alternative responses to criminal justice. Thus, the Nation has explored the delivery of justice by systemic, multi-disciplinary problem solving; rather than punishment based intervention. This discussion will focus on: the history of the Nation’s Tribal Court, the structure of a Healing to Wellness Court, incorporating tradition and culture, and the braided services approach in your team setting. The braided services discussion include breakout sessions where attendees will analyze and reach a consensus concerning a hypothetical participants challenges and recovery.

    Presenters:

    The Honorable Eric M. Mehnert has served as the Chief Judge of the Penobscot Nation Tribal Court since 2008. He presides over the Nation's Criminal and Civil Courts as well as the Nation's Healing to Wellness Court. He served as Chief of Enforcement of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts Commission against Discrimination. In his career he focused his litigation practice on civil rights; employment discrimination, housing discrimination and defending the rights of those who have been institutionalized. 

    The Honorable Rhonda Decontie has served on the Penobscot Nation's Judicial System since 2011 and became Clerk of the Court in 2014.  She was sworn in on May 3, 2023, as the first Magistrate Judge of the Penobscot Nation Tribal Court. In 2024 she was also appointed to serve as the first Magistrate Judge for the Houlton Band of Maliseet Indians. Under her leadership, the Tribal Court has been nationally recognized as a leader in handling child protective proceedings and for its culturally-aligned Healing to Wellness Court.  She is a graduate of the University of Maine at Augusta and is a member of the UMA Bangor Campus Advisory Council.

    Lunch break 12:00 - 12:30 - social time breakout room (optional)

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    12:30 - 1:00 MAM Annual Meeting

    All Members Welcome

    Updates and Voting on Board Nominations

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    Afternoon Session

    From Burnout to Balance: 

    Everyday Strategies for Thriving at Work and Home

    In this interactive 90-minute program, Dr. Gretchen Pianka—physician, resilience expert, and founder of Resilience University—guides mediators through simple, science-based practices to reduce burnout, regulate stress in real time, and strengthen emotional presence during conflict. Drawing on insights from neuroscience and behavioral health, participants will learn practical tools to calm the nervous system, stay grounded in challenging moments, and model radical self-care that fosters trust and compassion in mediation.  Participants will leave with immediately applicable techniques to care for themselves and support resilience in the parties they serve—because a well-regulated mediator is essential to a well-regulated process.   

    Presenter:

    Dr. Gretchen A. Pianka, MD, MPH, FAAP, is a graduate of Amherst College and the University of Vermont School of Medicine. She earned her Master’s in Public Health from the University of New England. Dr. Pianka has practiced in Maine since 2004, currently caring for immigrants and children entering the foster care system. Her book, Coaching Families for Resilience is designed to teach parents and kids skills and techniques to begin addressing trauma, toxic stress, and behavioral and mental health issues. She enjoys sharing the approach that promotes access to positive childhood experiences with children, caregivers, medical students, physicians and other professionals.


    Cost:

    Members $100


    Non-members $150  

    If you register as a non-member, $50 of your cost can be applied to MAM Annual Membership by sending a request to our administrator. 

    Student $50

    If you are a matriculated student, we do not want cost to be a barrier. Please email our administrator with confirmation of your student status.



    Your membership includes peer support groups and discounted registration fees to future events.

    For any of the above requests or questions please contact Mary, our administrator at administrator@mainemediators.org.

    Best, 

    John Lemieux, President

    Terri DeCoster, Chairperson Meetings and Events


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    Maine Association of Mediators (MAM) 

    https://www.mainemediators.org






    • December 08, 2025
    • 8:30 AM - 4:30 PM
    • Zoom
    Register




    Domestic Violence Screening

    Training for Mediators

    8 Hour Certificate Training for Mediators

    The Maine Association of Mediators (MAM) is offering Domestic Violence Screening for Mediators, a course designed to help meet the requirements to apply to the Court Alternative Dispute Resolution Services (CADRES) roster and assist all mediators with this essential skill. This course is designed to meet the eight (8) hour CADRES roster training requirement for domestic violence (DV).

    This training was developed by longtime CADRES mediator Brenda Mitchell who dedicated her career to giving a voice to victims of abuse through training and advocacy. Erin Clough, Karen Groat, and Pamela Waite are pleased to continue the tradition of hosting this training annually in collaboration with MAM. 

    Through this course, mediators will learn how to:

    • Define DV, its role in communication with a demonstration and practice in methods of screening
    • Help the mediator determine if there is a history of DV in the relationship
    • Formulate strategies for how to mediate if there is a DV history
    • Design a safety plan for before, during, and after the mediation session

    When: December 8, 2025

    Time: 8:30 AM - 4:30 PM 

    With 1.5 Hours Training Materials and Prework

    Location: Zoom

    (Your zoom invite will be emailed to you before the event)

    Registration Information:

    Participants will receive training materials and a certificate of attendance.

    Cost:

    $175.00 for Non-MAM Members

    $150.00 for MAM Members

    $50.00 Refresher Fee

    (For anyone who has previously taken the 8 hour training.)



    Trainers:

    Pamela Waite, Esq.- A graduate of Smith College and the University of Maine School of Law, Pam represented the State of Maine as an Assistant Attorney General primarily in employment and tax matters for over 30 years. A skilled negotiator, she trained to become a mediator and now mediates privately; serves on the court rosters for family matters and foreclosure cases; and is also on the roster as a mediator for the Maine Human Rights Commission and the Maine Department of Education. Pam believes strongly in party self-determination and the importance of trying to resolve disputes by agreements as an alternative to engaging in lengthy and expensive litigation. 

    Karen Groat- Karen is a Libra Professor of Mediation at University of Maine Augusta Justice Studies and has over 20 years of mediation, consulting, and teaching experience. As former director of the Opportunity Alliance Family Mediation (FCM), she has worked extensively with mediators, adults and youth, communities, and organizations specializing in complex family matters, multi-party disputes and workplace conflict in more than 3,800 mediations. An experienced Transformative Mediation trainer and communication coach, Karen combines research from neuroscience and trauma-informed care in her relational practice. In 2018, she expanded work in collaboration with the University of Maine Cooperative Extension for farmer and farm worker well-being. This work includes Farm Coaching (receiving the 2021 ERME Outstanding Project Award), agricultural mediation (MAMP), and offering peer support and training to service providers in Northeast ag and rural communities. She loves collaborating and has developed a practicum with internships as a pathway for UMA students to apply mediation, dispute resolution, and communication skills with mentored professional experience in a variety of organizational settings. 

    Erin Clough, Esq.- Erin holds a B.A. in psychology from Emory University and a J.D. from the Boston College School of Law. Erin is an assistant Attorney General in the Child Protection Division of the Maine Office of the Attorney General where she represents the Department of Health and Human Services in child welfare cases. Erin has been an attorney for 20 years and a mediator for 7.  Prior to joining the AG’s office in 2022, Erin worked in various capacities to help families navigate crises in a child-focused way.  She served on the court rosters for family matters, small claims, and forcible entry and detainer (evictions); mediated for families privately; and served as a guardian ad litem representing children in child protection cases, family matters, and guardianship cases.  Erin and Karen worked closely together in a community mediation setting with a goal of making mediation more accessible to more families statewide. Erin has a particular interest in domestic violence and the impact that it has on children and families.

    Questions?

    Contact Karen Groat at karen.groat@maine.edu

Past events

October 22, 2025 MAMP Mediation Training - External Professional Development Opportunity
October 20, 2025 Kids First Conference - External Professional Development Opportunity
October 15, 2025 MAM Conflict Resolution Day
October 09, 2025 MAM October Peer Support Group
September 18, 2025 MAM FED Training
September 11, 2025 MAM September Peer Support Group
September 09, 2025 MAMP No-Cost PD Webinar
July 31, 2025 Kids First - Professional Learning Webinar
June 12, 2025 MAM June Peer Support Group
June 10, 2025 Two Day Commerical Mediation Training Spring 2025 Fordham Law School
May 29, 2025 MAM Family Law Training
May 15, 2025 MAM May Peer Support Group
May 08, 2025 Kids First Gala
April 10, 2025 MAM April Peer Support Group
March 13, 2025 March Peer Support Group
March 10, 2025 MAM Membership Meeting and Presentation
February 13, 2025 February Peer Support Group
December 19, 2024 Monthly MAM Member Mediator Peer Support Group
November 21, 2024 Monthly MAM Member Mediator Peer Support Group
November 01, 2024 2024 Annual Meeting & Conference Featuring David Hoffman
October 24, 2024 Monthly Mediator Peer Support Group
October 17, 2024 2024 Conflict Resolution Day
September 26, 2024 Monthly Mediator Peer Support Group
September 25, 2024 2024 FED (Forcible Entry & Detainer) Mediation Training
June 13, 2024 Family Law Mediation Training
June 12, 2024 Maine’s Abandoned and Discontinued Roadways: ORDER RECORDED EVENT
February 09, 2024 Member Meeting and Training Workshop - Best Practices for Mediation Session Preparation: Success Comes When Preparation Meets Opportunity
December 04, 2023 Screening for Domestic Violence in Mediation Settings
October 19, 2023 Conflict Resolution Day: The Journey to Maine: Exploring Challenges Faced by New Mainers and How Conflict Resolution Professionals Can Better Assist
September 20, 2023 Study Group #4: The Five Conflict Styles: Learn yours and how these conflict styles may show up in mediation.
September 14, 2023 FED (Forcible Entry & Detainer) Mediation Training
July 21, 2023 2023 MAM Summer Social
June 21, 2023 Family Law Mediation Training
June 14, 2023 Study Group #3 Guardians ad Litem in Mediation: How Mediators and Guardians Can Work Together for Better Outcomes for Families
May 17, 2023 Study Group #2: Pre-mediation Preparation - The How, Whether, and Why's: Considerations from the first contact to the first session
April 20, 2023 FED Mediation: Forcible Entry & Detainer Part II (aka Landlord/Tenant Law)
April 19, 2023 Study Group #1- Boundaries in Mediation Practice: Let Us Count the Ways, When's, and How's
March 31, 2023 Maine Association of Mediators - 2023 Spring Forum
December 12, 2022 Domestic Violence Screening for Mediation
November 04, 2022 Annual Meeting and Fall Conference - Empowering Parties with Diverse Mental Health Needs
October 20, 2022 Conflict Management Coaching: Empowering Clients to Seek Clarity and Move Forward
October 12, 2022 MAM Professional Panel Presentation: Developing Your Mediation or ADR Practice
July 14, 2022 FED Mediation: Forcible Entry & Detainer Part I (aka Landlord/Tenant Law)
July 08, 2022 2022 MAM Summer Social
June 15, 2022 Mediator Study Group: Let's Talk Finances & Mediation
June 02, 2022 Family Law Mediation Training
May 11, 2022 Mediator Study Group: Working with Attorneys in Mediation
April 26, 2022 Consumer Law Training
April 13, 2022 Mediation Study Group: Working with the Power & Influence in Mediation (Part 2)
March 15, 2022 Mediation Study Group: Power Imbalance in Mediation
January 21, 2022 Family Law Mediation Training
January 11, 2022 Domestic Violence Screening Mediation Training
November 05, 2021 Fall Conference and Annual Meeting
October 21, 2021 CONFLICT RESOLUTION DAY - Dialogue Across Difference in an Era of Polarization
June 17, 2021 40 hour Mediation Training
June 03, 2021 Family Law Mediation Training
May 25, 2021 Reflections on Mediating and Facilitating in the COVID Era and Thoughts on the Path Ahead - A Panel Discussion
January 21, 2021 Family Law Mediation Training
January 08, 2021 Domestic Violence Screening Mediation Training
November 06, 2020 Annual Meeting and Fall Conference - Mediation in the Me Too Era and A New Look at Practice Quality
October 13, 2020 16-hour Agricultural Mediation Training ONLINE
October 05, 2020 40-hour Certificate Program in Mediation
September 16, 2020 40-hour Basic Mediation Training
June 11, 2020 Family Law Mediation Training
May 28, 2020 "Braver Angels: Reuniting America" - Documentary screening and discussion
May 19, 2020 CONDUCTING ZOOM MEDIATION – A PRACTICAL GUIDE AND ETHICAL CONSIDERATIONS
April 17, 2020 Mediating Privately – The Mediation Agreement and Insurance Considerations
March 18, 2020 Mediator Peer Study Group
February 24, 2020 Mediator Peer Study Group
December 06, 2019 Negotiation Skills and Strategies
November 14, 2019 ANNUAL MEETING AND FALL CONFERENCE
November 06, 2019 Mediation Skills for Leaders
October 23, 2019 Agricultural Mediation Training
September 26, 2019 Working in Mediation (or Otherwise) with Parents who are in High Conflict.
September 23, 2019 40-Hour Certificate Basic Mediation Training
September 11, 2019 Mediator Peer Study Group
June 13, 2019 Advanced Mediation Skill Development
June 12, 2019 Domestic Violence Screening for Mediators
June 03, 2019 Family Law Mediation Training
May 06, 2019 Agricultural Mediation Training
May 02, 2019 Probate Court Mediation Initiatives
April 03, 2019 40-hour Certificate Program in Mediation
February 06, 2019 40-Hour Certificate Mediation Training
January 07, 2019 Mediator Peer Study Group
November 15, 2018 Advanced Mediation Skill Development
November 01, 2018 ANNUAL MEETING AND FALL CONFERENCE
November 01, 2018 SPONSOR OUR FALL CONFERENCE
October 23, 2018 Mediation Child Support Challenge
October 18, 2018 Public Policy Collaboration and the Maine Revives Civility Project - A BROWN BAG LUNCH SEMINAR
September 17, 2018 Mediator Peer Study Group
June 19, 2018 32nd Annual Thomas Nevola MD Symposium
June 13, 2018 Mediation Skills for Leaders - June 13 & 14, 2018
June 13, 2018 40-Hour Basic Mediation Training - June 13, 14, 15, & 21, 22, 2018
June 04, 2018 Family Law Mediation Training
May 17, 2018 Consumer Law Training for Mediators
April 26, 2018 40-hour Certificate Program in Mediation - April 26, 27, 28 & 30, May 1, 2018
April 04, 2018 Promote Civility in your Community
April 02, 2018 Mediator Peer Study Group
March 02, 2018 Domestic Violence Training for Mediators - Postponed to March 2nd
January 22, 2018 Mediator Peer Study Group
December 13, 2017 2nd Wednesday Mediator Breakfast
December 01, 2017 One-Day Transformative Mediation Training
November 08, 2017 2nd Wednesday Mediator Breakfast
November 02, 2017 Annual Meeting and Conference
October 18, 2017 40-Hour Basic Mediation Training - October 18, 19, 20, 26, & 27 2017
October 12, 2017 Brown Bag Lunch Seminar on Restorative Justice
October 02, 2017 Mediator Peer Study Group
September 13, 2017 2nd Wednesday Mediator Breakfast
July 19, 2017 Domestic Violence Training for Mediators
June 14, 2017 ​40 Hour Certificate​ ​Basic​ ​Mediation Training
May 17, 2017 Domestic Violence Training for Mediators

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